How is Marriage Like?

No, I'm not dying to get married.  Just curious.

My team leader for current company, was sharing with Melissa and myself about his 'unsuccessful' marriage.  Usually, people will use the word 'failed' marriage.  However, how should that word be used?  Only betrayals in the picture, yes?

My team leader's character is someone, whom you will never think of who will ever end up in a divorce.  And, why did he and his wife even split two months after their marriage, he said they just stopped communicating; which I find it rather sad.

It's like they have worked so hard and came so far, yet all they decided to do was to give one another up after so many years in the relationship.

So what determines a good partner?  Qualities vs. quantity, what's your take?

It makes me think rather much about Kai Wei and myself.  Our relationship is still 'young'.  And, his responsibility is already there for me right from the very beginning he decided to come after me.  Will he, be like my team leader, be tired one day as well?

They said love is blind.  But love was not blind, just that many tend to follow their heart.  What's love if you had used very much of your brain?

Kai Wei and myself are moving kind of fast-forward (no, not fast-forward about baby-making).  That, in just a couple of years time, his responsibility will not be just the both of us.  It's building a nest for the both of us, as well as for my parents.

Is marriage supposed to be an excitement?  Or is it the sparkles that we constantly have to create for one another to keep running?

Our relationship now does not seem like we are dating.  I do feel as though we are like some married old couple.  Leading life and providing for one another.  Did I miss out on blogging our sparkles?

All right, back to my team leader.  To us, it's a pity.  To him, he does not even feel anything or even near how he felt before.  This is the scary part about human beings; when we are head over heels, we love madly like how little puppies wiggle their tails and follow who they love all the time.  When the feelings gone, everything is irreversible.  No matter how much effort you think you have wasted.

Anyway, four more days to our special day. (:  Finally get to blog using my laptop, and now, time to sleep.  Goodnight all. <3